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Premature Ejaculation
You’re not likely to
hear talk of it around the company water-cooler, because guys just don’t
feel comfortable openly talking about these things with other guys. But
premature ejaculation afflicts more men than any other sexual problem
does.
The penis contains very sensitive nerves and veins. Normally when the
penis is stimulated, blood rushes into the veins within the penis
and this results in the ‘stiffening’ or erection of the penis.
Seminal expulsion or ejaculations are controlled by the pelvic muscle
and this muscle is used to propel semen and seminal fluids through the
urethra and out of the end of the penis. Premature ejaculation
occurs when the pelvic muscle has become weakened and the man is
prevented from controlling his ejaculations to a point that is
satisfying both physically and emotionally to him and his partner.
Because such problems aren’t often discussed among men, sufferers tend
to feel isolated, weak, and ‘inadequate’ at satisfying their partner.
Unfortunately too, there has existed the absurd misconception that
premature ejaculation is somehow a measurement of a man’s
“masculinity.” Such a stereotype only serves to isolate sufferers with
feelings of inadequacy, shame, etc. and also to discourage them from
discussing these issues with their doctor. Helping men to understand
that this problem affects many men and also making it “socially
acceptable” to discuss more than just the latest football scores, will
go a long ways towards encouraging men to seek the help of a medical
professional when needed.
Most men will experience premature ejaculation at least once in
their lifetime. This isn’t any thing to worry about unless it becomes a
routine occurrence. There are many things that can lead to a problem
with controlling ejaculations. If you are suffering from premature
ejaculations, you should consult your family doctor to further
discuss all of the possible causes that may be affecting your ability to
control ejaculations and to rule out more serious medical
conditions that may be causing the problem.
Researchers have found a genetic link to premature ejaculations
in men whose Father’s and Grandfather’s also experienced premature
ejaculations. Further research has also led to the discovery that
among the men that suffer from premature ejaculations there is
often a heightened-response to stimulation of the penis by
super-sensitive nerve-endings in the penis, combined with weakened
muscle control. Doctors have found that anti-anxiety medications and
muscle-strengthening exercises, such as “Kegel’s”have helped many men to
achieve more control over their ejaculations. Kegel’s strengthens the
pelvic muscle and ‘Kegel exercises’ are achieved through the ‘sudden’
stopping of urinary flow.
Stress can also lead to a man “reaching the finish line-just out of the
gate.” Worry about finances, job security, performance anxiety, and
communication problems within the relationship can all lead to
premature ejaculation. Depression can affect ejaculation
control. Stress, anxiety, and depression can lead to other sexual
problems as well, including the inability to achieve or maintain
erections. If you believe that stress or depression is at the root of
your problem: it is highly recommended that you speak with a
professional who can help you learn ways to combat these feelings so
they don’t affect you in the bedroom.
Sometimes even just the “anticipation” of a sexual encounter can be
over-stimulating to the penis and will lead to an ejaculation
just after beginning intercourse. This can be especially true when the
sexual encounter is with a “new” partner, or a different sexual position
is being tried for the first time. To relieve this “anticipatory stress”
experts suggest that men: “masturbate” to orgasm, either alone, or with
their partner first, and then “stimulate” the penis until another
erection is achieved, prior to engaging in intercourse.
There are medical conditions such as prostate infections and cancers
that can cause premature ejaculations. This is why it is vital
for you to make an appointment with your family doctor if you are
suddenly experiencing ejaculatory -control problems, to rule out these
very serious conditions. Over the counter medications commonly used for
cold and flu symptoms can also lead to premature ejaculations. These
OTC, medications can lead to a temporary “inability” to “feel”
pleasurable sensations, while at the same time intensifying the “urge”
to ejaculate, which results in an overall less-enjoyable sexual
encounter for both you and your partner.
Men who are having a problem with premature ejaculations
shouldn’t be discouraged as almost all incidences of premature
ejaculation can either be cured, or ‘hugely’ controlled with the
proper use of anti-anxiety medications, exercises to build the strength
of the pelvic muscle, and even emotional health therapies. The exact
course of treatment needed to control or cure “ejaculation control”
issues will vary among different individuals and the extent of regained
control will also vary among individuals and is also very much dependant
upon the underlying of the problem.
About the Author
Hunter Crowell is a
researcher, marketer, and an avid penis exerciser. He is also the
creator of
Natural Penis Enlargement
Explained, a web site setup to help everyone find useful and accurate
information related penis enlargement. Visit his site at
http://www.penis-enlargement-explained.info
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